What happened to Love?

(ADULTS ONLY)
Absolutely do not read this if:
1. You aren't a advid followerer of God's word
2. You divorced your spouse over irreconcilable differences... you won't like what i have to say. I promise.
3. You are easily offended

This does not apply to women who's husband have ACTUALLY cheated on them or women in abusive relationships.

What happened to loving through the good times and bad?

You want to know why your grandparents have been married for 50 years and you can't be married for 2 yrs?? Ask them how they made it through.

IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES is hogwash. If you have divorced your spouse over irreconcilable differences, you need to learn to be a little more agreeable. YOu need to spend more time in prayer. If you were married 5 years or less.. you didn't spend ENOUGH time in prayer for your spouse.

ALSO- The bible doesn't give you free reign to divorce your spouse bc you decided you still loved your highschool sweetheart. Im so SORRY. You should have been more attentive to listening to God's voice before you got married.


Another point that is frustrating. Just because your husband has looked at porn, that is NOT A CAUSE TO DIVORCE HIM. THAT IS THE MOST RIDICULOUS THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE. PRAY FOR HIM. If it was a one time thing forgive him and get over it. If it's a problem GET COUNSELLING. If he loves you and wants to be married to you... he will stop what he is doing. If he doesn't love you, then separate and wait for his butt to cheat on you... then divorce him.

JUST because he does it once does not make it ok to divorce him. Also, ladies are you with-holding from your husbands? YOU KNOW ITS BIBLICALLY WRONG TO DO THAT RIGHT??? YOU ARENT ALLOWED TO DO IT. THE BIBLE SAYS NOT TO. WHY???? Because it will drive your husband to STEP out and find it somewhere else. It doesn't matter how much he loves you. GOD DESIGNED HIM THIS WAY SO DON'T HATE HIM FOR THE WAY GOD MADE HIM. If you are with-holding because you are mad... or angry.. or just plan lazy and your husband ends up stepping out... you need only be mad at yourself.

You can say all day long.. "He is suppose to love me... no matter what... we have vows" AND YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO WITHHOLD LADY. If you want a healthy marriage, get intimate with your husband and have open communication. Sex is designed to unite you as ONE, if it is not there... YOU ARE NOT ONE.

Just bc he flirted with another ... is not a reason to get divorced. AN AFFAIR IS TO HAVE FULL BLOWN INTIMATE CONTACT WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR SPOUSE. If this has not occurred you have no grounds to get divorced. So go back to the drawing board and figure out how to fix your situation instead of just DIVORCING your spouse bc you don't want to DEAL WITH IT.


I am so angry. In the last month, over 6 of my "couple" friends are divorced. Why? Because they are selfish brats.

"HE won't do this" "She won't do that"... WAHHH WAHH WAHH!!! You guys sound like a bunch of babies. GROW UP and be an Adult. Stop watching Soap Operas BECAUSE THIS IS THE REAL WORLD. Marriage is not like you see on the movies. It is not always cookies and cream. YES you wake up some mornings WONDERING WHY in the world you married your spouse and question if you love them. YOU KNOW how to fix that? Start spending time together again. REMEMBER why you fell inlove. Find a common ground. NO YOUR SPOUSE isn't perfect. You should've known that before you got married otherwise, you don't deserve to be married bc you will do this again in your next marriage.

I'm sick of all the pathetic reasons you guys aren't married and it's sad as well as disheartening. You won't get pity from me.

DIVORCE is not even in my vocabulary. If my husband steps out... he will be sorry. I will lock his butt up in a crazy house and have him doused with meds before I decide to divorce him. HOWEVER, I want to live my life KNOWING that even though I knew he did the ultimate worst thing EVER, I could forgive and still love.

THAT is a true heart like God's. If you can't find room in your heart to still love your spouse, you can't even say you love God. I don't believe it. YOU CANT TELL ME YOU DO. The bible says if you hate your brother, you don't love God. Can't argue with the word can you?

I'm so ticked.


This is all for now.

Good night.